In tonight learning of magnetic relationship,thru a process I saw myself being sad,lost,confused do not know how to self love and saw having the same wound my loved one was having and it brought me to have an insight our wounds are rubbing against each other,the 2nd awareness I had was my judgement on my loved one creating from those couples I knew,surface love ,not true not embraced entirely,fake and it had created the impression I had for my own relating ,I know for sure with my self work growing and going my famiky will heal,grow tone one connecting heart to heart